DEAR SELF

"If I was your boyfriend, never let you go Keep you on my arm girl, you'd never be alone I can be a gentleman, anything you want If I was your boyfriend, I'd never let you go, I'd never let you go" This song keep running and running in my mind. Missing somebody.. Longing for his/her hug. It just something normal. But strongly forbidden. Why??????? As a Muslim, you know that having a boyfriend or girlfriend is haraam because it counts as Zina - fornication. Fornication, in easy English, means ‘sexual sin’. Allah expressly forbids romantic or sexual relationships outside of marriage. When people go against that rule, then you get the typical western society where people play sexual merry-go-round with each other, giving each other STDs, using and abusing each other, and destroying the sacredness of marriage as an institution. You can’t even be sort of engaged to a guy, and then "date" to get to know each other. In Islam, non-Mahram men and w

*Professor : You are Islam, aren’t you, son ? Student : Yes, sir. Professor: So, you believe in GOD ? Student : Absolutely, sir. Professor : Is GOD good ? Student : Sure. Professor: Is GOD all powerful ? Student : Yes. Professor: My brother died of cancer even though he prayed to GOD to heal him. Most of us would attempt to help others who are ill. But GOD didn’t. How is this GOD good then? Hmm? (Student was silent.) Professor: You can’t answer, can you ? Let’s start again, young fella. Is GOD good? Student : Yes. Professor: Is satan good ? Student : No. Professor: Where does satan come from ? Student : From … GOD … Professor: That’s right. Tell me son, is there evil in this world? Student : Yes. Professor: Evil is everywhere, isn’t it ? And GOD did make everything. Correct? Student : Yes. Professor: So who created evil ? (Student did not answer.) Professor: Is there sickness? Immorality? Hatred? Ugliness? All these terrible things exist in

First of all, aku nak ingatkan dulu.. Allah kalau jauhkan kita dari seseorang yang kita sayang ni.. means dia sayang kepada kita..dia nak jauhkan kita daripada mendekati zina.. kita patutnye bersyukur.. tengok masyarakat di luar sana.. berapa ramai yang Allah biarkan mereka melakukan maksiat.. dating siang malam.. duk bergayut di henfon sepanjang masa... kita tak sedar.. Allah biar je dia melakukan maksiat.. tu tanda Allah sayang ke???  Of course jawapannya TAK ! sebab tu Allah biar je dia leka dengan maksiat tu.. tapi kita ? Allah jauhkan dari orang yang kita sayang.. tu maknanya Allah masih kasih kat kita... bersyukur ! Allah dah jauhkan kita dari si dia.. kenapa kita pulak terhegeh-hegeh nak pergi cari dia? SABAR ! Allah tahu apa yang terbaik untuk kita.. rasanya tak perlulah nak buat status, letak gambar ayat cinta, post gambar si dia yang tujuannya nak menarik perhatian si dia.. nak bagitahunye kita sayang dia.. naknye dia perasan yang kita ada perasaan cinta terhadap dia..